Answer :
I think this has to come from within you. But I would ask myself how I relate to my friends and how we grew and fell emotionally together and how I could use my learned skill in comforting other people in all of my relationships by using what I know to relate with them.
(I hope this helps with your essay, and that it doesn't seem too convoluted)
(I hope this helps with your essay, and that it doesn't seem too convoluted)